“Unk, old friend – almost everything I know for sure has come from fighting the pain from my antenna, said the letter to Unk. Whenever I start to turn my head and look at something, and the pain comes, I keep turning my head anyway, because I know I am going to see something I’m not supposed to see. Whenever I ask a question, and the pain comes, I know I have asked a really good question. Then I break the question into little pieces, and I ask the pieces of the questions. Then I get answers to the pieces, and then I put the answers all together and get an answer to the big question.
The more pain I train myself to stand, the more I learn. You are afraid of the pain now, Unk, but you won’t learn anything if you don’t invite the pain. And the more you learn, the gladder you will be to stand the pain.” – Kurt Vonnegut
In his novel, The Sirens of Titan, Mr. Vonnegut’s Unk never figures out he wrote the letter beseeching him to endure the pain triggered by an implanted antenna. Unk was an earthling recruited into the Martian army where antennas kept soldiers from thinking about the devices that turned them into slaves. Humans don’t need antennas to turn us into obedient slaves because brain chemicals ensure few suspect, or want to know, while most reject the possibility we’re under the spell of powerful neurotransmitters.
To his credit, Vonnegut figured out how dopamine keeps everyone, including neuroscientists, oblivious to how dopamine does our thinking for us. And he did it decades before the advent of sophisticated brain scanning equipment.
”Think left and think right and think low and think high. Oh, the thinks you can think up if you try!” – Dr. Seuss
As explained in chapter 4, philosophers, mystics, poets, satirists, and other visionaries have been thinking, complaining, and writing about dopamine-induced madness (DIM) for centuries. Marc Twain wrote “the human being is merely a machine, and nothing more, driven by the singular purpose to satisfy his own desires and achieve peace of mind.”
What’s especially impressive is how so many great thinkers, who knew nothing about neurotransmitters, managed to diagnose a disease that continues to elude today’s scientists, despite years of research and countless studies tying dopamine to a long list of pathological disorders, including autism, schizophrenia, Parkinson’s disease, ADHD, psychoses involving delusions and paranoia, and every acknowledged addiction.
This is not a joke.
“Orthodoxy: That peculiar condition where the patient can neither eliminate an old idea nor absorb a new one.” – Elbert Hubbard
To primitive brains, programmed through natural selection to avoid life-threatening choices, pain is pain. Expectations of experiencing pain keep DIMwits from thinking dopamine-repellent thoughts, (e.g., that brain chemicals are doing our thinking for us). The brain doesn’t distinguish between expectations of pain inflicted by sticks, stones, humiliation, or rejection. Which is why studies show that psychological abuse can cause more lasting trauma than sexual and physical abuse.
It doesn’t matter if psychological pain doesn’t break bones or leave visible scars, it can and does cripple lives.
One result is the same beneficial programming keeping dumb animals avoiding physical pain keeps DIMwits frantically avoiding imagined threats to safety, approval, or status, such as considering dopamine repellent information their peers find threatening.
In other words.
“So, first of all, let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is…fear itself — nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance.” – Franklin D. Roosevelt
Psychological pain is every bit as real as physical pain and yet it’s “all in your head.” Which explains why DIMwits dread rejection, disapproval, being mocked, or looking silly as much as being beaten silly.
Researchers have recently discovered…“Rejections elicit emotional pain so sharp it affects our thinking, floods us with anger, erodes our confidence and self-esteem, and destabilizes our fundamental feeling of belonging.” (From) Which is why esteem addicts dislike, hate, attack, and avoid threatening information, situations, and individuals.
“Better to be hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie.”
– Khaled Hosseini
Anyone willing to experience the pain associated with honestly admitting to D-needs addictions quickly discovers how bearable the dopamine-induced pain involving threats to safety and esteem is, especially when compared to being clubbed or stoned. Once you understand how psychological pain isn’t actually real, the next challenge is to experience the pain triggered by expectations associated with being rejected.
Granted, experiencing the “pain” triggered by admitting to shortcomings, fears, insecurities, self-deceptions, and addictions to safety, power, acceptance, approval, or status isn’t fun, but it’s a crucial first step to fixing the heisenbug fix that keeps DIMwits lost in webs of deceptions.
Choosing between the dopamine-appealing comfort of living life as a slave to the heisenbug fix or risking the dopamine-repellent honesty of fixing the fix is right up there with Neo choosing the red or blue pill.
As mentioned in the introduction, you might be better off dismissing what they’ve read and walking away as fast a possible.