“If I told you what it takes to reach the highest high you‘d laugh and say nothin‘s that simple“ – The Who
In a previous post I wrote about Abraham Maslow‘s belief that we all start out with the potential for self-actualization and then get it “knocked out” of us. I also explained why self-actualization is both as simple as The Who knew it was, yet unknowable and unnowable for 99+% of us.
While checking out quotes to add to the post, I considered lyrics from The Who‘s rock-opera Tommy. The Who’s lyrics proved so spot-on that a pleasurable dopamine hit convinced me to feature them in a second post about self-actualization.
What The Who Knew
“I‘m free, I‘m free, and freedom tastes of reality
But you‘ve been told many times before
Messiahs point you to the door
No one had the guts to leave the temple.”
What The Who Couldn‘t Know Until Now
“This unusual and highly successful species spends a great deal of time examining his higher motives and an equal amount of time ignoring his fundamental ones.” – Desmond Morris
With the help of brain scanning equipment it‘s possible to link common, unacknowledged addictions to the dopamine-induced survival cravings we share with chimpanzees. These primitive cravings, that Abraham Maslow labeled deficiency needs, are why most of us behave like (what Maslow called) “…the missing link between the anthropoid apes and civilized men” instead of the “self-actualized beings” he believed we could all be.
The glitch that keeps us from reaching our true potential can be traced to primitive ancestors who cultivated natural cravings into addictions to food, sex, safety, power, acceptance, approval, attention, esteem, and status. To complicate matters, our more recent ancestors added unnatural addictions to dopamine-triggering substances, beliefs, and behaviors, e.g. money, religion, and drugs. Then they bequeathed their addictions to newborns who were indoctrinated by societies controlled by of out-of-control money, power, status, and/or religion addicts.
Since we‘re talking about the same dopamine that junkies trigger with heroin, it‘s no surprise that the symptoms are the same, i.e. self-deception, denial, and the dishonesty that allows addicts to continue doing the one and only thing addicts care about = vigilantly protecting and triggering dopamine flow.
In other words:
Freedom tastes of reality = honesty = self-actualization.
Dopamine addiction tastes of delusion = dishonesty = self-deception.
The Power of Expectations
A common misconception is that dopamine is all about pleasure. In actuality, dopamine is triggered by expectations. As strange as it might sound, different expectations trigger the same dopamine that convinces us to either repeat or avoid different substances, beliefs, and behaviors. More specifically, positive expectations trigger pleasurable dopamine and negative expectations trigger unpleasant dopamine.
In effect, dopamine reduces all choices down to “Go!” or “Stop!”
For example, some gamblers find slot machines highly addictive because the positive expectation of hitting jackpots provides extremely pleasurable “Go!” squirts in their brains. Conversely, the painful “Stop!” jolts triggered by negative expectations of losing money keep others avoiding casinos. Negative expectations also explain why most of us discard rancid foods and avoid honesty.
“No one has the guts to leave the temple” because negative expectations threaten dopamine flow.
- Expectations of the unknown terrify safety addicts.
- Expectations of disapproval traumatize acceptance addicts.
- Expectations of humiliation paralyze esteem addicts.
- Expectations of having lies, self-deceptions, and denials exposed totally discombobulates safety, acceptance, and esteem addicts.
- Expectations of any threat to dopamine flow keeps 99+% of us choosing dopamine over self-actualization.
How The Who Knew
Tommy‘s composer, Pete Townshend, was inspired by the teachings of Meher Baba, an Indian mystic and spiritual master who understood how simple it is to reach the highest high.
“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience; we are spiritual beings having a human experience.” - Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
The self-deceptions, denials, and dishonesty we “re-lie” on to protect dopamine flow keep us from being here now, self-actualizing, experiencing true freedom, and fully comprehending what it means to be human beings sharing an impossible, incomprehensible, mystical, unfathomable, amazing, spiritual experience.
Raising dopamine awareness fosters self-actualization.